We always hear words such as ‘i just don’t understand him anymore, what is it that he is expecting from me, can anyone help me understand him, he says that i don’t understand him’ etc.. in our daily life conversation. We hear it from our dear ones, loved ones, friends, some stranger talking at the bus stop or even from our own self.
The truth is there are some stuff that a man will never tell us but we have to understand, such as:
- Love your man, trust your man & respect your man – Love your man unconditionally. Make him feel like he is the best man on earth. Be his best friend, admire him & talk about his good qualities.
- Do not try to change your man – Love him for who he is. Do not constantly tell him what to do & what not. He will feel that you are trying to change him. If you are unhappy of certain things just show him gently. Soon he will get your message and improve himself.
- Never hurt a man’s ego -This is always a no no. Never ever hurt a man’s ego because that is their biggest pride.
- Always be by his side – Be there for him when he needs you. Stand by him when the whole world is against him in his eyes. Focus on his achievements & excellencies rather than his faults.
These are just some simple yet meaningful tips to a happy relationship.
Anonymous said,
December 1, 2008 at 9:28 pm
But it’s just hard to understand some mans. My husband sometimes is so loving & caring but at times you just don’t want to be near him. He acts just like a stranger..like you don’t know him or never met him before.
Will appreciate if more ladies out there can share their experience or any man can advice on their nature. Mite be helpful to me to understand my husband more.